The Ins And Outs Of David Beckham's Relationships
Beckham depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in David's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. David Beckham may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner. David Beckham craves excitement, change, and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous, and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for David Beckham to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next.
Emotional freedom is very important to Beckham. His domestic life can be very unstable - but Beckham likes it that way. David has the ability to speak with his heart and soul and therefore to convince people. He is adaptable in both his thinking and speaking, but also changeable. In his work David Beckham can be a fanatic, at times inconsiderate and expects too much of others.
In love relationships, David Beckham is more interested in a person's sense of humor and intelligence than in their physique. David likes a partner who is mentally alive and who keeps him guessing a little bit, and David Beckham becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, never changes or surprises him. Talking, sharing ideas, going places together, and learning new things together is very important to his happiness. David Beckham needs lots of social stimulation, is something of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. A possessive, jealous partner is very stifling for Beckham. In his personal relationships, David Beckham insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. David does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner; he feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition. On one hand Beckham finds it easy to demonstrate his love and affection for others and to talk about love relationships, and he tends to reveal his most personal feelings to people in his intimate circle of friends. But on the other hand David Beckham often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves because being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to David. It is possible for David Beckham to get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him.
Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for David Beckham - having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.