Setting Your Fundation On Dating Women
A huge part of attracting and seducing a woman happens before the two of you even speak. I would say probably 90%! Women want certain things from a man, and it is your job to present it to them. Better than presenting certain characteristics is to actually be someone who has these characteristics! Its not unusual to be walking down the street and see an ugly man with a hot woman. At first it is very shocking seeing this big bellied, short, balled, man with a beauty. But if you were to meet this man you would see that he has plenty to offer. Call to mind the first step of the four part progression: Put yourself in her line of sight and show the traits she wants to see (Alpha male traits).
She has made up most of her mind about you before you ever speak to her. The big problem for most men is that they are average in every way. They may be ugly, but they are also lacking in many other key areas. This is the trick that the ugly guy has up his sleeve. He knows how to adapt the right personality, attitude, and mindset to date beautiful women.
Here are some reasons why he can get the girl why you cant. Reason #1: He doesn't believe he needs to be good looking The ugly guy doesn't believe that women will ever like him for his good looks. He knows that he needs to master other skills. He shows her that he is exciting and fun to be around. He has great social skills. This impresses her friends and her family. The good looking guys assume that every woman should like him just because he has good looks. This means the good looking guy will lack in other areas. Some guys will try to buy her love with money, gifts, and favors. Thats fine as long as you want a girlfriend that uses you for those reasons.
Reason #2: She likes who he is People like people who like them for who they are. People also like people for who they are. What I mean by this is that the ugly guy makes her feel good. She likes him for making her feel good. Other men will try to trick her into liking him. He will buy her things and do her favors. Its more rewarding for her when she doesn't feel forced into liking him. Good looking guys have a problem with trying to attract a woman with favors and material things. Being a shoulder to cry on isn't the same as being the guy she gets to cry over. Witch guy would you rather be? Reason #3: Ugly men go after what they want Successful people don't make excuses for their failure.
"I'm too fat!" "I don't make enough money." "I'm not good looking enough." This screams failure and low self-esteem. Its all true if you believe it. Ugly men don't think like this. They surround themselves with positive people and have a great attitude. "I have so much to offer a woman." "There are so many great women to meet." "Witch girl should I approach first." This attitude allows them to go after what they want and to feel good about themselves.
Reason #4: Ugly men enjoy being men So many men now of days are afraid of being a man. They don't want to put a woman in her place when she gets a little sassy. Its time for you to get over it. Ugly men are putting women in their place. This makes her more submissive to him. Reason #5: Ugly men are upfront about who they are You must sincerely want to improve yourself as a person. Not so you can get more dates. The dates will be a by product of your foundation. You see, ironically this is less about women and more about you.